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*Imp* Teenagers and underlying challenges of current generation:

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 Teens naturally experience stronger urges and have less ability to delay gratification compared to adults. A teenager is someone who is between 13 and 19 years old.

There is a continuous socioemotional development happening among teenagers. Puberty brings a surge of hormones that can lead to intense emotions and risky behavior.

Teenagers are also grappling with social pressures, identity formation, and desires for independence, which can lead to impulsive choices.

Some teenagers experience strong feelings and attraction towards the opposite gender. Unfortunately, this can lead to unhealthy or harmful relationships. Some young people may misinterpret exploitation as love, resulting in painful experiences. These experiences can have long-lasting emotional consequences, including feelings of guilt and depression.

Compared to adults teenagers have lesser self control, they might get into unnecessary and undesirable commitment with opposite gender. Thus parents and guardians should monitor teenagers in their school/college/work routine. At this age teenagers might not be able to realise and analyse their actions.


Puberty brings strong emotions and urges, and without proper guidance, people can make risky choices. 


Here are some ways to address this situation:

1. Education and Open Communication: Early and honest education about, relationships, and healthy boundaries can empower young people to make informed decisions. 

2. Open Communication with Parents/Guardians: Creating a safe space for open conversations about emotions, desires, and concerns allows young people to seek guidance without fear of judgment.

3. Focus on Healthy Relationships: Teach about respect, communication, and emotional intelligence in relationships. Show examples of how healthy relationship is possible within formal marriage ties. 

4. Strong Social Circles: Encourage healthy friendships and positive social interactions to provide a sense of belonging and support outside romantic relationships.  

5. Meaningful Activities: Channel energy into hobbies, sports, volunteering, or creative pursuits that provide a sense of accomplishment and personal growth.

6. Mental Health Resources: Therapy or support groups can help young people navigate emotions, develop coping mechanisms, and build self-esteem.

8. Socioeconomic factors: Poverty, lack of opportunity, or unstable family environments can contribute to risky behavior. Addressing these factors through social programs can create a more supportive environment.

9. Mobile/Media Influence: Media showcases unrealistic life style in terms of dressing, behaviour, and relationship etc. Adults should challenge unrealistic portrayals of relationships in media and promote healthy, socially and culturally acceptable practices.  


It's important to note that in current society the marriages are not happening at right age. It’s beneficial to have marriages at the right age. Its believed that it can offer stability, companionship, and shared experiences during formative years of adulthood.

Parents and the society should focus on education , support systems, and addressing underlying issues. We can empower young people to navigate this stage of life healthily and make positive choices. 


Source: Written with data sourcing from Gemini AI.

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