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How many emotions do we have:

Snippets : - The richer our understanding of emotions—also called emotional intelligence—the more smoothly we navigate interactions at work and at home, and the happier and healthier we tend to be. - A lot of emotional experience is not pure, but involves complex mixtures of states. Click to read:

Are you in the right job?

Snippets : - Its employees responsibility to understand/determine if the job fits. While employers often assess and measure for competency and strengths, they most likely don’t assess how energized you are by the job. Which actually is important. - Currently, the assumption is that if you took this job, it’s the right job for you. - Motives are much harder to identify because we’re often not conscious of them. They’re the river that flows under us. - Achievement is also one of the factors that could make people to stick to their jobs. It is the need to constantly improve your performance and accomplish goals that are meaningful to you. Are you in the right job. Read full article to see research based analysis. Click to read from source :

The least we can do is be patient & kind:

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking! I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the car’s rear! “Physically challenged; Please be patient.” And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm & slowed down!! In fact I got a little protective of the car & the driver!!! I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok! And then it struck me.  Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!???! Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!?? Will we be more patient & kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads?? Labels like —— “ Lost my job” , “Fighting cancer”, “Going through a bad divorce” , “ Suffering Emotional abuse “ , "Lost a loved one”, “Feeling worthless” , “ Financially broken”..... and more like these!!!! Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about. The least we can do is be patient & kind!!! Let us respect the invisible labels!!!!

Do you know what makes me happy:

During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience: "Does your husband make you happy?" At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage. However, his wife answered the question with a resounding "No." "No, my husband does not make me happy." The husband was baffled, but his wife continued: "My husband never made me happy, and he does not make me happy. I am happy." "Whether I am happy or not is dependent not on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends. I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance, I would be in serious trouble. Everything that exists in this life constantly changes: the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, t