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We should learn not for School but for life- the story of a brilliant boy:

*The story of a very brilliant boy:

There was a very brilliant boy. He always scored 100% in Science.
Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT.
Went to the University of California for MBA.
Got a high paying job in America and settled there.
Married a Beautiful Girl.
Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars.

He had everything that makes him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children.

So, WHAT WENT WRONG?

California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found “what went wrong?”

The researcher met the boy’s friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America’s economic crisis and he has to sit without a job for a long time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn't get any job. Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. they survived a few months with low money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. He first shot his wife and children and then shot himself.

*The case concluded that the man was programmed for successes and never trained for handling failures*.

Lets come to the actual question,

*What are the habits of highly successful people?*

First of all, there are people who talk only about success habits and nothing about failures.Here we try to remind you about the failures and looses that may come in your path after you accomplish everything. We build our foundation on the strong footing of faith in God Almighty.Nobody knows when the next economic crisis will hit the world. The best success habit  *is getting trained for handling failures*

I also request every parent and teacher to not only program your child to be successful but teach them how to handle failures and also teach them proper lessons about life. Learning high-level science and math will help them to clear competitive exams but the knowledge about Life and life hereafter will help them to face every problem.

At *School* we should groom them to be good human beings. Our Motto should be that *We Learn not for School but for life.* So teach them about how money works instead of teaching them to work for money. Help them in finding their passion and let them learn and understand that *every thing comes from the creator*. These degrees will not help them in the next economic crisis and we don’t know when the next crisis will hit the world.

When you teach children to be 100% successful, let that 100% also include non academic skills which are responsible for a person to be happy and successful in life.

This blog 'Life Skills' is dedicated to knowledge of these life skills. Browse the blog by clicking 'Home' button and read through 100+ articles from various sources.

Source: This story is received through WhatsApp. Its not confirmed by CLF whether the particular incident occurred. It is published to be a today's generalized phenomenon as a sample case.

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